Just focus on what you and him are trying to build together. So, just make sure you always take the high road because then other people will see that you're not going to play her silly games. The good news is, we have some tips that can help. A couple of weeks later we weren't on good terms and i want to say we made up a week after still not dating. Also the biggest mistake Babydads make is not cutting sexual ties with Babymom? You are not his mother! A year later we got married and one year after that we had our third child together. Tired Of Baby Mama Drama, this is only a test in your marriage. He knew that whole time.
Put child support on him and keep it moving. He communicated all these things to me after the decision was made like weeks later or months later. Go deeper into your situation and I will provide you with the best advice that I have to offer, like I do for all of the wonderful ladies that comment on this hub. But you're right, he shouldn't be encouraging his baby mama's behavior by allowing her to get sentimental. I fell deep and hard for him. I know that he loves her for being the mom to his child, and I have always been absolutely supportive of this, he is a very giving person. Most men tend to fall asleep at the wheel when it comes to making sure everyone knows their place in his world.
I just don't know what to do and how I can ask him to leave the baby momma since the girl just gave birth. Girl I know this situation can get extremely frustrating. True love is worth a few complications and sacrifices - how much you can handle is up to you. He can only see them at her house. She does this out of jealousy and to make you feel insecure about your relationship with her ex. So I don't bother her. It's different now because I'm a mom.
Now he's worried about how his ex is acting and he's been restless and anxious as she torments him with countless messages and provocations that has really affected their children which is under her care. Then one day she broke in through the basement window and cut up all the laundry in the basement. I excepted his kids like they where mine. Hi Hog, My boyfriend of 8 months has a child with someone else. Why she did that I do not know.
Don't try to be a second mother to the child, instead just try to build a solid relationship with the kid. I left him in early 2013, and my former mother-in-law took custody of the kids. He would just rather let the chips fall where they may instead of just being honest with everybody. When situations happen, inform her. If she has none, then her statements have no merit. She needs to name that baby after her biological father.
He is my man, my husband. I started seeing him shortly after he was separated from his ex wife of 12 years 2 kids together also. Me being a women said How can I be mad at that I mean whatever. I haven't met that child or her mother, so I haven't had to deal with any of it. Some men feel that once a woman gives birth to his child, she belongs to him forever. That's all I'm asking for in this situation, but I'm certain I'll never get it. Am I stupid for thinking this could work? Because he can't have you both.
We spent so much time with the kids and son he had with another person. There's no one in this world that can keep me from being a parent to my child. He slept with this chick without any protection, so he didn't think of your safety at all. Another time I watched the baby by myself when Jared got call into a work emergency. You have to know yourself first. Now if the Child's mother is just all kinds of disrespectful, then and only then does she forfeits any kind of respect that was owed to her.
Why the contemptuous stare downs at family functions? I made a couple post on my social media and he always seems to find out but I never mention his name but he gets so offended and calls himself telling my cousin so she will get involve but I'm just like can I not vent I'm hurt and no one seems to want to listen like just get him out your mind or how can you chose a man over your kids. He had responsibilities when he was with you. The dude don't want her she wants me back, I ain't no fool! Since I haven't lived with her in the past 2 years she totally treats me like family, like i'm one of her own kids. Apearantly the moment he left my place he went to her so they could talk and they were back together. Trust me, you don't want those issues that this man has going on.