My wife sucks me off to completion several times a week. The economy is in a shit place right now, and as far as I see it, if you're working on fixing it, it isn't really an issue. Never physically force a woman to do anything, you're above that. I do it because I know she enjoys it and it feels amazing for her, which makes me feel good knowing that I'm giving her that pleasure by going down on her. And you're retarded if you think something as meaningless as being grossed out by bodily fluids is a reason to not to care for someone. But i didnt know about the eating sweet fruits will make it taste sweet so i guess thats the only good advice out of the whole disscusion. Maybe she just doesn't love me.
Very simple, if your girlfriend asked you to do something, then do it! Semen is around 95 percent water. Swallowing semen is an acquired taste and it is all about habit, after a couple of hesitant times she should be good to happily swallow. Out of curiosity, do you enjoy receiving oral sex? Not something I'm happy about. An instance of searching to find ways to spice things up, whereas guys with big ones don't feel quite the need to? My advice to the guy is the same as some of the more realistic and mature women here; do something for her that you dislike, it probably won't be sexuals though, but it doesn't have to be. If she won't let you even cum in her mouth at all then pull out and blow it all over her face instead For some reason seeing a girl drenched in your own cum is very satisfying.
. I mean, it's not like I fucking enjoy gagging. I do it because I want to make my girlfriend happy. If she's doing something she really doesn't want to do, just for you, you should be willing to give her something in return. If she had said 'no' I would respect that as it's her choice, and accept that this will always be an issue for me and that I couldn't be completely happy being with someone who wasn't at least willing to try. On the flip side, I believe when women swallow, we create intimacy between husband and wife. Is it a fear of rejection? This aunt is projecting her crap on her niece! I guess from my observation, it seems as though no one truly enjoys semen; they train themselves to get used to it because they know it's very pleasurable to their partner.
My missus will swallow or spit, depends what she's into at the time but the most important part in all that is how I deal with the orgasm. It's important to understand her, and what she wants, even if you dont quite agree. She is treated like a princess in bed and now gives head and swallows alot of come mine , and once a close friend's. Despite what popularity likes to claim, having friends of both genders is a smart move, and entirely possible. It's not about a pressure point, my throat is literally just fucked up. We used condoms before that, but then it was pull out and let her suck me until I came in her mouth. This was mentioned, try not to eat spicy foods.
It sounds like you've already talked to your partner about this, so she knows that you'd like it and why. I mostly advice women that cum wont hurt you. My guy says it feels awesome and I don't have to taste it! First get her comfortable with you coming in her mouth. My boyfriend wanted me to swallow because he would always get out of the mood because he blocked. I'd eat that shit all night, no return-satisfaction required. A reader, anonymous, writes 12 May 2005 : Well I was the exact same way. Now, I wouldn't date a girl that wouldn't, at least during the first year of the relationship, always suck and swallow the vanilla cream filling out of my dick.
I agree semen tastes like semen, I know. All it took was a persistent, undemanding man. People seem to be so trapped by sexual-chemistry dictating who they do or don't interact with. You can only change yourself. A female reader, anonymous, writes 30 November 2005 : The only way is to let her do it on her own.
It's great because it feels great. But the actual physical sensation to the guy of her swallowing is rarely even noticeable. It's mostly about the other person. I have trouble with gagging and puking on my own mucous, and do not want to have those same problems associated with oral sex. I talked openly with my partners about my desires and my feelings on the matter. Your relationship is yours, don't compare it to anyone else. Some of you girls need to lighten up! Understanding why my partner wanted this and the pleasure that it gave him did make me more open to it, but to be clear, it was still my right to say no if I wasn't comfortable with it.
Now, I wouldn't date a girl that wouldn't, at least during the first year of the relationship, always suck and swallow the vanilla cream filling out of my dick. And god knows how easy women can get those damn things. Sex has to be fun for both, not a one sided thing, he can find other ways to get off as great. I believe your answer is in taking baby steps. But you have to do something for her.